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Post by bigballerju on Dec 5, 2015 17:09:02 GMT
Well you asked for advice so that question was needed. If you guys were close friends like that in the past and did hang out. Now that I know that and the fact you guys split up for a while. If she keeps giving you the run around and making up excuses. You may have to just accept the fact you guys are not close friends like you were for years anymore. You guys are still cool and friends but she may not feel she is that close to you anymore as a friend if she does not want to hang out. Now I could be wrong and it also could be she has a boyfriend. Some women do not want to hang out even with there guy friends to avoid any trouble with the guy there seeing.
Honestly if she keeps doing it as guy stop rescheduling and honestly meet another woman to be friends with.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2015 19:51:46 GMT
Well you asked for advice so that question was needed. If you guys were close friends like that in the past and did hang out. Now that I know that and the fact you guys split up for a while. If she keeps giving you the run around and making up excuses. You may have to just accept the fact you guys are not close friends like you were for years anymore. You guys are still cool and friends but she may not feel she is that close to you anymore as a friend if she does not want to hang out. Now I could be wrong and it also could be she has a boyfriend. Some women do not want to hang out even with there guy friends to avoid any trouble with the guy there seeing. Honestly if she keeps doing it as guy stop rescheduling and honestly meet another woman to be friends with. She isn't seeing anyone else. And I made it 100% clear that it was a proper date. Plus I already do hang out with other ladies apart from her (nearly all of them already taken/lesbian). I've already taken out some girls-who-are-just-friends to the movies or bowling, so I don't need to find any more female friends. To answer your question, Terranova, she and I hung out more often while with a fairly big group of friends. I personally think that she's not purposefully delaying it all to be cruel, yet everyone I know says that she probably is. While its getting tiresome to have to keep rescheduling, I can't get angry with her despite everyone else's suggestion. I just can't do that. Also I just generally really appreciate it that you guys are giving me so much advice. I'm really thankful. |
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Post by bigballerju on Dec 5, 2015 21:54:33 GMT
No problem. But dude just to open your mind and give you some last advice. At 26 years old I can tell you if you made it known you want a proper date and she keeps giving you the run arounds. I am sorry but chances are she may not see you as someone who she wants to date if that's what you want. Some women will do that because they find it easier then telling the truth that they don't feel the same way or don't want to tell you they like someone else or anything like that.
Your right that she is not being cruel but just may not want to hurt you if she does not want to go on a date with you.
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Post by Terranova on Dec 5, 2015 22:42:50 GMT
:') Yeah. That's what we're here for, after all.
I don't think she's being cruel, either. It may be that things are legitimately coming up or she's nervous or not interested in that movie or not interested in you... But it's also hard to judge a girl through the eyes of a man that has eyes for her.
You might be seeing a COMPLETELY different side of her than your parents or friends. So when the consensus is all saying bad things... I'd be wary. But don't let it affect your entire decision.
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Post by Ruinus on Dec 25, 2015 6:28:47 GMT
Hey potter, if it's not a bother, you have any follow up on what happened?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2015 13:48:30 GMT
Me and her aren't really talking anymore. I've moved on.
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Post by Ruinus on Dec 27, 2015 20:28:49 GMT
Me and her aren't really talking anymore. I've moved on. Oh, that sucks man. Sorry about that, but it sounds like it might have been for the best what with her perpetually putting you off. |
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Post by forceecho on Dec 28, 2015 0:04:20 GMT
at that point the best thing to do is just straight up ask the girl. I was in a similar situation with this one girl, she went on a date with me and I thought it went great. Next thing you know she's giving me the run around. I was getting tired of it so I just straight up asked her, and she told me she was uncomfortable because she had a thing with one of my friends and he's not over her yet and blah blah blah whatever, but the point is after she told me that I didn't have to waste my time anymore. Life's too short man.
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Post by SSJRuss on Dec 28, 2015 3:53:31 GMT
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Post by silversurfer092 on Jan 5, 2016 18:34:18 GMT
Posting here to reserve a spot in the eventual Neckbeard hunt.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2016 16:31:24 GMT
I'm not really bothered to be honest. In hindsight, it would never have worked out. We both go to different schools and have demanding timetables.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 1, 2016 13:56:50 GMT
Things are going a lot better now.
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Post by silversurfer092 on Oct 1, 2016 19:08:50 GMT
Any of you fuckers turned into neckbeards yet?
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Post by Ruinus on Oct 2, 2016 1:57:35 GMT
Any of you fuckers turned into neckbeards yet? Why, you want an apprentice to share your wealth of experience with? :V I don't think anyone here is a neckbeard, at least last I checked on the FB group page. |
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Post by silversurfer092 on Oct 2, 2016 2:56:30 GMT
Any of you fuckers turned into neckbeards yet? Why, you want an apprentice to share your wealth of experience with? :V No. I just want to publicly shame neckbeards until they realize it's 2016 and that their views on everything are absolutely ridiculous. |
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